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Long Distance Romantic Relationships

Uzak Mesafe Romantik İlişkiler

Zeynep Sayar Bolelli(FATIH SULTAN MEHMET FOUNDATION UNIVERSITY)0009-0008-1349-1896
İbrahim Sönmez(FATIH SULTAN MEHMET FOUNDATION UNIVERSITY)0000-0002-6276-2356
Çiğdem Yavuz Güler(FATIH SULTAN MEHMET FOUNDATION UNIVERSITY)0000-0002-1607-0789
Pages
877–889
Publication Date
2026-04-15
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Therefore, understanding the dynamics of long-distance romantic relationships is important for both academic research and practitioners working in the field of mental health.

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Objective & Hypothesis:The advancement of technology, changing living conditions, and increased travel freedom have contributed to the growing prevalence of long-distance romantic relationships, making it important to examine the factors that influence these relationships.
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Key Findings & Data:These studies demonstrate that couples can overcome the barriers imposed by physical distance, strengthen emotional bonds, and develop strategies to sustain the relationship through the use of technological communication tools.
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Conclusion & Impact:Therefore, understanding the dynamics of long-distance romantic relationships is important for both academic research and practitioners working in the field of mental health.
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⚙️Variables:uzak mesafe · romantik ilişkiler · ilişki memnuniyeti

Abstract

The advancement of technology, changing living conditions, and increased travel freedom have contributed to the growing prevalence of long-distance romantic relationships, making it important to examine the factors that influence these relationships. As in any romantic relationship, couples in long-distance relationships face various challenges and must continuously exert effort to maintain their connection despite physical separation. This study aims to review research on long-distance romantic relationships and discuss the dynamics and determining factors that shape them. The literature indicates that long-distance relationships have been studied in relation to variables such as relationship quality, trust, commitment, self-disclosure, idealization, social support, emotional closeness, and the meaning attributed to periods of separation. These studies demonstrate that couples can overcome the barriers imposed by physical distance, strengthen emotional bonds, and develop strategies to sustain the relationship through the use of technological communication tools. Furthermore, the literature highlights areas in which long-distance relationships are similar to or differ from geographically close relationships. Communication patterns, social support utilization, tendencies to idealize the partner, and individual awareness emerge as key factors directly affecting relational commitment and satisfaction in long-distance relationships. Maintaining a healthy long-distance relationship is facilitated by developing effective communication skills, strengthening social support networks, and leveraging technological communication tools. Consequently, attachment styles, communication frequency, social support, individual awareness, and the meaning partners attribute to the relationship are critical factors enhancing relational resilience in long-distance relationships. Therefore, understanding the dynamics of long-distance romantic relationships is important for both academic research and practitioners working in the field of mental health.

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Günümüzde teknolojinin ilerlemesi, değişen yaşam koşulları ve artan seyahat özgürlüğü, uzak mesafeli romantik ilişkilerin yaygınlaşmasına neden olmuş ve bu ilişkileri etkileyen faktörleri incelemeyi önemli hâle getirmiştir. Her romantik ilişkide olduğu gibi, uzak mesafe ilişkilerini sürdüren çiftler birtakım zorluklarla karşılaşmakta ve ilişkiyi uzakta iken canlı tutmak için sürekli çaba göstermeleri gerekmektedir. Mevcut çalışma, uzak mesafe romantik ilişkileri konu alan araştırmaları derleyerek, bu ilişkilerin dinamiklerini ve belirleyici faktörlerini tartışmayı amaçlamaktadır. Alanyazın incelendiğinde, uzak mesafe romantik ilişkilerin romantik ilişki kalitesi, güven, bağlılık, kendini açma, idealize etme, sosyal destek, duygusal yakınlık ve ayrılık sürecine yüklenen anlam gibi değişkenlerle çalışıldığını gösteren araştırmalar olduğu görülmektedir. Bu çalışmalar, çiftlerin teknolojik iletişim araçlarını kullanarak fiziksel mesafenin getirdiği engelleri aşabildiğini, duygusal bağlarını güçlendirebildiğini ve ilişkinin sürdürülmesini sağlayan stratejiler geliştirebildiğini ortaya koymaktadır. Ayrıca, uzak mesafeli ilişkilerin yakın mesafeli ilişkilerle benzerlik gösterdiği ve farklılaştığı alanlar üzerinde de durulmuştur. Özellikle iletişim biçimleri, sosyal destek kullanımı, idealize etme eğilimleri ve bireysel farkındalık, uzak mesafe ilişkilerde ilişkisel bağlılığı ve memnuniyeti doğrudan etkileyen önemli faktörler olarak öne çıkmaktadır. Bu ilişkilerin sağlıklı yürütülmesi, çiftlerin etkili iletişim becerilerini geliştirmeleri, sosyal destek sistemlerini güçlendirmeleri ve iletişimlerini teknolojik araçlarla desteklemeleri ile mümkün olmaktadır. Sonuç olarak, bağlanma stilleri, iletişim sıklığı, sosyal çevre desteği, bireysel farkındalık ve partnerlerin ilişkiye verdikleri anlam gibi unsurlar, uzak mesafeli ilişkilerde ilişkisel dayanıklılığı artıran kritik etmenler olarak önem kazanmaktadır. Bu nedenle, uzak mesafeli romantik ilişkilerin dinamiklerinin anlaşılması hem akademik araştırmalar hem de ruh sağlığı alanında çalışan uygulayıcılar için önemlidir.

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Bolelli, Z. S., Sönmez, İ., Güler, Ç. Y. (2026). Long Distance Romantic Relationships. Psikiyatride Güncel Yaklaşımlar, Cilt: 18 Sayı: 3, 877–889. https://doi.org/10.18863/pgy.1681217

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